Tuesday, October 21, 2014

 
Celebrating their 18th!
 
We have gone from this...
 
 
to this...
 
in the past 18 years.
 
The days were often long and the years short as time slipped by
while we are busy with the small things of life.
 
We decided to celebrate by taking the boys somewhere they have always wanted to go.
 
Of course this place is nowhere close to where we live but takes some travel time to get there. We decided to make it a quick weekend get-away that was fun and relaxing.
 
It started out with relaxed packing because, very opposite my nature, I did not even use a list. On Friday night I told people to throw some clothes, toothpaste, toothbrush and deodorant  in a duffle bag and call it good.  It was certainly no-frills packing.
 
We headed out on Saturday morning and zipped down the freeway, making amazing time.
High up in the mountains between central and southern California we stopped for the first
time at the visitor center at Pyramid Lake.
 
Besides wonderfully clean and modern bathrooms, there were rooms of educational hands-on displays about the water systems, transportation, and allocation in California.

 


 
 
 
From there we descended into the Los Angeles basin and decided that even though this might be considered a good traffic day we would prefer fewer cars around us.

 
We extricated ourselves from the freeway and made our way down to the ocean.
Unfortunately, we didn't extricate ourselves from any crowds because there were
plenty of people enjoying a beautiful day at the beach.
 
 
Southern California beach culture was a bit of a shock to my children who are
 used to the colder beaches of central CA. 
After squeezing into the tiny parking lot, we headed out the Manhattan Beach pier
to the little aquarium in the very old building at the end of the pier.
 
 
{How does that finger keep getting in the way?}


Putting her hand in the tank was not her idea of fun. 
I had to convince her that nothing would bite off her fingers or be
squishy when she touched it.
Looking at the eels and sand sharks in another tank was more than she could bear.

 
 
 



 
 
We enjoyed sitting on the pier watching the beach volleyball, surfers, boogie boarders,
and the non-ending stream of people enjoying the warm day.
Later, while sitting in the sand enjoying our ice cream,
 we also were treated to the scents of marijuana and sunscreen.
 
Leaving the beach, we headed toward the freeway on a relatively uncrowded street
and got rear-ended which pushed us into the vehicle stopped in front of us.
Thankfully no one was injured too bad and we could drive away in our vehicle.
To our benefit, I had put a brand new bottle of ibuprofen in my bag so I passed
those around to all the passengers in our vehicle.
(The amount of time and energy we have spent on the accident since then
makes we wonder how people have time to deal with a major accident.)
 
 
Thankful we had left the beach in plenty of time, we arrived at Medieval Times where a few family members were waiting to join us.
Because we were a birthday party group, we entered through a special entrance,
 received our crowns and had our group photo taken with the king.
{Photographer: Medieval Times}
 
After roaming the Hall of Arms for awhile, we were seated by sections
according to the color of our knight.
You can see by our crowns that we were cheering for the black and white knight.
 
These were the eating utensils of the evening; no flatware allowed.
We were served: Dragon Soup (tomato bisque),  garlic bread, roasted chicken,
 spare ribs, herb basted potatoes, and pasty of the castle.
It was served by our capable and jolly serf.
 
The pageantry before the meal. 
 
Show of horse skills.
 
A story was woven through the knights' competitions of the evening.
There were games of skill, jousting, horseback tricks,
 vanquishing the "bad" interloper, and saving the Princess. 
The winning knight had the fervent applause of his cheering section.
 
The excitement of the evening finished, we drove our battered vehicle the hour
to my Mom and Dad's house to spend the night.
The next day was a family dinner followed by some brownies to celebrate
the newly minted adults.

 
After enjoying our visit with the family,
 it was time to throw the duffle bags back into the vehicle and head for home.
It was a little hard to believe we had covered so much ground and had so much excitement
in a little more than 36 hours.
 
A bonus to becoming an adult:
Since our car accident happened on the boys' 18th birthday, they entered the adult
world of filling out forms, talking to insurance adjustors, and taking themselves
to the chiropractor.
To say the least, they have not enjoyed this type of entry into the adult world.
Even so, it was still a happy 18th birthday.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

 
Ministry of the Month
 
"Rescue those who are being taken away to death;
hold back those who are stumbling to the slaughter.
If you say, "Behold, we did not know this,"
does not he who weighs the heart perceive it?
Does not he who keeps watch over your soul know it,
and will he not repay man according to his work?"
Proverbs 24:11-12
 
I come from a family that has a heritage of volunteerism.
My parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, and cousins all work to give
back to their churches, communities and other excellent causes.
While deep in the worthy task of child-raising, it is very difficult to fully
participate in physically supporting ministries that are very close to our hearts.
Some times it is impossible to make donations that we feel will make a difference.
But there are many ways that you can help.
No matter your situation and budget, you can help.
Yes, they seem like "small" ways but the "small" things add up to great things.
 
I have been led to highlight a ministry each month that you can support both through
physical donations and through prayer.  These are ministries that will not take you away
from your young children or other important commitments but in which you
can still make an impact for God's kingdom world-wide.
 
With that all said....
October:  Operation Christmas Child
 
This is a ministry of Franklin Graham's organization Samaritan's Purse.
 
We have packed shoeboxes for the past few years and have been
very blessed each year to find that our particular boxes have been delivered
to the Philippines.  Out of all the many countries they could have been sent to
they were sent to the country of my husband's birth.
We are able to minister to his fellow countrymen directly through
Operation Christmas Child.
 
What to do...
1. Select the gender and age group for whom you want to pack a box.
(2-4 years, 5-9 years, 10-14 years)
2. Procur an average size cardboard or plastic shoe box.
If you want, you can wrap the box in Christmas paper.
(We found that a plastic box is a handy item in the home it is sent to.
It can be used for storage, bathing, food prep, or water container.)
3.  Fill the box with toys, grooming supplies, school supplies, clothing accessories,
small tools,  gum and hard candy.
4.  Include a check for $7 to cover the shipping cost
or donate online so you can later be informed which country your box was sent to.
5. Pray for the recipient of the box(es).
6. Drop the box(es) off at a local collection point.
Collection week is November 17-24, 2014
(You can find your local drop spot online)
 
This is a ministry your family can participate in together.
Apart from purchasing the items, the packing can be done at home on your schedule. 
 The individual items are not expensive but are a luxury to the recipients.
Each recipient also receives a book called "The Greatest Journey"
and a mentor to teach them about Jesus.
All this for a little bit of your time and a few dollars.
 
*Please refer to the website for a list of gift suggestions and items to not include.
 
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By default, we already have two boxes packed for this year.
They were the boxes that were to be donated last year but when illness derailed
both Rudy and I, there was no way to get them to the collection site.
 
 
 Some of the items included in these boxes for a 10-14 year old:
flashlights, pencils and a sharpener, toothbrush, floss, facial tissues, notebooks, word search booklets, batteries, calculator, Slinky, Ring Pop, t-shirt, ball cap, wash cloth, bar soap, hair bands, a comb.
 
Happy collecting and happy packing!!